This week's messages
Soulmates in the Family
The Shift in Consciousness is bringing us the
opportunity to heal our soul level wounds so that we
can each accomplish our spiritual mission. While much
has been written about the romantic soulmate
relationships, soulmates exist on many levels. In fact,
every relationship we experience in our lifetime will
involve soulmate energies. How we respond to and
learn from these interactions is an integral component
of the lessons that we learn. We all incarnate with a
soul group, entities with whom we have many lifetimes
of experiences. These individuals represent our most
wonderful and most difficult experiences and our first
encounter with our soul group is within our family of
origin.
It is only recently that we have begun to admit that
family relationships can be difficult and that the
idealized family most likely does not exist. Most families,
in fact, experience some level of dysfunction. Rather
than focus on why families do not work, we would go
much farther in understanding family dynamics if we
could see families for what they really are, members of
our soul group who are here to help us with our
lessons. We could gain greater insight into our soul
lessons and suffer less from the memories of our
childhood experiences if we were able to put the
relationships into the perspective of our soul's growth
and our past life experiences with these energies.
A family is no more than a stage on which we have an
opportunity to learn some of our most important life
lessons. That is not to say that it is acceptable for
anyone to suffer from the devastating behaviors that
can occur in some families. But from a soulmate
perspective, we have agreed to replay certain
scenarios with these energies in the hope that they
can be resolved, forgiven and healed. Admittedly, it is
difficult, if not impossible, to forgive the parent who
abused, molested, tormented or caused us unspeakable
pain. But it is necessary for us to realize that this is a
replay of events that occurred in another lifetime and if
we are to end this drama, someone has to take the
first step.
Once we see families for what they are, another part of
the soulmate dynamic, we can see our family members
from a different perspective. They are here to help us
with our lessons, to help us heal our wounds and to
help us grow spiritually. It may be easier for us to
forgive the stranger who hurt us than the family
member, who we believe is supposed to love us and
who should be behaving differently. While this may
reflect our perception of our family, the truth is that
our family members are no more than our spiritual
teachers. And the message of the Shift is clear, it is
time for humanity to heal its wounds, to end the pain
and to learn a new paradigm for relating on all levels.
Remember that forgiveness means that we agree to
end the drama, to refuse to stay at the energetic level
that will allow the drama to continue. Once we are able
to forgive and heal, we allow a new dynamic to occur
within our family, one that reflects our own spiritual
growth and healing.
Read the September 2004 message...
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Blessings to you all!
The September article is posted on the Uriel Heals
website and this month's message is about the
soulmate dynamic, a very misunderstood aspect of our
spiritual journey. Soulmates are energies that are part
of our soul group, here to help us with our spiritual
lessons. Our first life encounter with the soulmate
energy is within our family of origin. Why is it that the
people who we believe are supposed to be the most
loving and supportive can be the source of our most
difficult and damaging experiences? Read about it in
this week's article ...
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Contents are Copyright(c) 2004 by Jennifer Hoffman. All
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Forgiven but not Forgotten
'Forgive and forget' is an adage that we hear often and
we believe that if we forgive someone then we must
forget what has happened between us and move on as
though nothing had happened. For some, the belief that
they must forget is enough to prevent them from
forgiving another for some devastating or painful
incident. And that is simply not true. The act of
forgiveness is something that we give ourselves, not
someone else. We forgive so that we can move on,
heal and change our own life experience. But we do not
forget.
It is physiologically impossible for us to forget painful
incidents. Our brain is designed to remember them so
that we can protect ourselves in the future. So the
person or event that hurts us at some point in time will
be remembered as a possible source of future pain. It is
only when we replay the painful incident in our minds,
over and over again, re-experiencing the hurt each time
that we create a situation that becomes problematic
for us. So how can we forgive someone who hurt us
and what do we do about the memories?
We can forgive someone when we realize that their
behavior is not about us, it is about them and the fears
that they project. It is only our karmic tie with them,
and the fact that we are within their space, interacting
with them that created the scenario for our painful
interaction. While we can forgive, we do not forget and
we will probably never forget. But we must remove the
emotional connection to that memory and that is what
happens when we forgive. Forgiveness allows us to
detach emotionally, to disconnect from the anger, fear,
and any other emotion that the interaction caused us
and allows us to remember without re-experiencing the
incident, over and over again.
So the next time someone says that you have
to 'forgive and forget' remember that while forgiveness
is a choice, forgetting is rarely an option. You will
always remember. But how you remember, with pain
and anger or with detachment and without emotion, is
the key to truly being free to move on past the drama.
Once you have forgiven you can allow yourself to
create new, less painful experiences in your life even
though you will remember the old ones.
The Difference Between a Victor and a Victim is I AM »
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Uriel's Message
How many times did you breathe today, one hundred,
one thousand or more? Did you remember to breathe
while you were driving, when you were sleeping, while
you were reading these messages? You do not know
because breathing is something that your body does for
you. And that is a good thing. Imagine what would
happen to you if you had to remember to take each
breath. There are many processes that your body does
for you and most are essential to life, such as the
beating of your heart, the workings of your inner
organs. Just as your body performs many essential
processes for you, your Higher Self maintains its
connection to the Source even when you are unaware
of its presence.
Have you noticed that there is more synchronicity in
your life, more miracles, more guidance available to
you? Do you know where that is coming from? It is your
connection to the Source at work. And it works even
when you do not pay attention. Now consider how
much more effective it would be if you were aware of
its presence, working with this energy and utilizing your
own powers of manifestation to create even more
wonderful things in your life.
Have you noticed that when you pay attention to your
body you breathe more deeply and fully, you exercise
more and may even eat more nourishing food? And your
body responds with better health and activity. The
same will occur when you pay attention to your Higher
Self and your connection to the Source. You will be
more aware of your power to manifest what you desire
in your life. You will pay attention to your thoughts and
words, knowing that it is through them that you are
able to manifest your reality.
For this week, pay attention to your breathing. Notice
when your breathing is shallow, for example, when you
are under stress, and when it is full and deep, when
you are relaxed and at peace. Then notice how your
body feels. Know that it is when you give your
attention to your inner and outer worlds that they
provide you with the best results. Your body will work,
whether you pay attention to it or not, but it will work
even more efficiently when you give it the attention it
needs. And so it is with your Higher Self. Remember
that it is always there, working on your behalf, your life
partner, whether or not you are aware of its presence.
And when you give it even a small amount of attention,
you will be able to create wondrous miracles in your life.
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PalTalk Chat update
Due to scheduling conflicts with classes that I am
teaching I will not be holding the PalTalk chats for the
next few weeks and will let you know when I can begin
again.
Spiritual Healing sessions
A spiritual healing can provide insight and information
on the events that are occurring in your life,
uncovering emotional and energetic blocks and helping
you through the healing process. If you have questions
about your life, life purpose and how to create the life
that reflects your true Self, schedule a spiritual healing
session today.
They can be conducted in person or on the phone.
Instructions for scheduling a healing are available on
the website.
Books--Books are available on the Uriel Heals website
and are in .pdf formation, which can be read using
Acrobat Reader. If you feel like a victim in your life or
need inspiration, you will find a book that meets your
need and answers your questions.
October heralds another interesting and rare
astrological event, a series of quintiles and two eclipses
that will occur during the entire month. This is another
phase of the Shift that began with the Harmonic
Concordance that occurred in November 2003. There
will be many energetic shifts in September as we
prepare for this event. If you have had trouble
sleeping, felt very lethargic or even gained weight
recently, it is all part of the Shift energy.
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Newsletter Archives--Creating Miracles--About Us
The Uriel Heals website contains copies of all past
newsletters and articles so new subscribers can benefit
from the the information that has been channeled in
earlier newsletters. Enjoy! I have also put
the 'Communicating with your Guides' e-book on the
website, in the books pages. This .pdf file is free to
read and print. You must have your pop-up blocker
turned 'off' to read it. Instructions on obtaining the free
Adobe Acrobat reader are on the website.
Miracle coaching--You can learn how to create miracles
in your life with our new Miracle Coaching program.
Our '30 Days to Everyday Miracles' course will teach
you how to create miracles in your life every day. And
you'll learn this in 4 lessons, in an easy-to-follow e-
course with weekly chats and a personal coaching
session. Sign up for the course now and what you
need to know to create miracles in your own life, every
day.
About Uriel
Archangel Uriel is one of the seven Archangels that
stand at the throne of the God Creator and one of the
four major Archangels that serve humanity. Uriel rules
the mental plane, our thoughts and ideas, creativity,
insights, judgment, magic, alchemy, astrology, universal
consciousness, divine order, the distribution of power,
the cosmic universal flow and the Earth's environment.
Uriel is humanity's link to the spiritual realms and he can
show us how to find our inner power through a process
that will help each individual Shift in consciousness and
therefore accelerate the entire human kingdom's shift
into higher realms of consciousness
About the Channel and Author
I am a spiritual intuitive, author, speaker, teacher and
channel for the Archangel Uriel. My path has often
been challenging, which has provided me with the
insight and compassion that is required at this time
when humanity is shifting in consciousness. I am
honored to be a channel for the Archangel Uriel and to
help others through this process. You can schedule a
seminar/workshop in your area. Email me for information
at healing@urielheals.com.
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