This week's messages
Living in the Reality Gap
We all wish, in one way or another, that things were
different in our lives. Perhaps wish that we were more
successful, richer, thinner, more confident, had better
relationships. When we don't have these things we can
feel like life short-changed us because we can see
examples of others who somehow have it 'better' than
we do. They drive nicer cars, have better jobs, more
fulfilling relationships, wear nicer clothes-the list could
be very long. We notice what others have and see it
as confirmation of our own inadequacy and that makes
us feel bad about ourselves. What we are seeing is the
gap in our reality, from where we are to where our Soul
is telling us that we can be.
We never have idle desires-everything that we want is
something that is within our personal reality field. This
is the collection of potential realities that we are
capable of attracting. When we wish for something we
are hearing our Soul's voice, telling us that this is
possible and is within our reality field. Seeing others
who have what we wish was part of our reality is our
Soul showing us that it does exist, urging us to focus
our intention, believe that we deserve what we want
and allow the energy to move it in our direction.
When we focus on what we wish we had, not believing
that we can have it, we are living in the reality gap and
can stay there for a very long time, spending our time
wishing and hoping that somehow, someday, things will
be different. The bridge across that gap is the
realization that these are not idle desires-we can
create everything that we wish for simply by focusing
our intention and beliefs on that objective. Once we
understand that what we think and dream about is on
the periphery of our reality, we can begin to attract it
to us, instead of pushing it away through our fears that
it cannot be ours.
The journey from where we are now to where we would
like to be can be short or long, depending on our beliefs
and perceptions about how much we deserve to have
in our reality. We must also pay attention to the signs
that the Universe sends us when it shows us examples
of our desires. If we see those examples as more
confirmation of what we don't have or deserve, we are
not only missing the point, we are also missing the
opportunity to refine our intention and draw the energy
even closer, until it is established as part of our
reality. This week, pay attention to what follows when
you say 'I wish' and know that your Soul is trying to
make you aware of a new potential reality. Use it as a
hint of what you should focus your intention on. And
know that with every wish, your Soul is speaking to you
because whatever you wish for can be yours and you
deserve it.
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Blessings to you all!
The September article is posted on the Uriel Heals
website and this month's message is entitled What Is
Reality? Is the life we live real, or are we living in
the gaps in our wishful thinking? How much of our
dreams are the 'real' reality? This week's article
discusses 'Living in the Reality Gaps.' When we wish
that things in our life were different, it is the voice of
our Soul telling us that there are other things avaialble
to us. Feeling bad about what we don't have isn't the
answer. How do we attract our wishes and dreams?
Read this week's article. Read more in this
week's message. The topic of this week's Today's
Children article looks at adult Indigos and Divorce.
When the adult Indigo energy began to marry, the
divorce rate quickly shot up. This has to do with the
Indigo energy, not with the downfall of society. Uriel's
message this week is about kindness.
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The Power of Apology
This week I offered a gift to someone and to myself-I
offered an apology for something that I did many years
ago. It was not an easy thing to do and took a great
deal of courage. I have thought about it for several
years, wondering whether I had the courage to actually
say the words. Would he think take it the 'right' way?
Would he accept my apology or laugh it off? Would I
look or sound foolish? And, would he believe that I was
sincere or think that I had ulterior motives? Putting
aside those fears was the hardest part in finding the
courage to make my apology public, even though I had
been thinking about it for some time. When I finally said
it, he said thank you and no more was said.
Whether or not my apology was accepted or made a
difference to this person is not important. What is
important is that it afforded me an opportunity to end
the karma between us. Just prior to my apology, a
situation occurred that could have resurrected the
karmic cycle that we have been involved in for many
years in this lifetime and probably many lifetimes before
that. Instead of responding in anger or arguing in self-
defense, I looked at the situation and realized that I
could end it all by stepping out of our karmic cycle. It
didn't matter whether I was believed or not. By
apologizing I stepped away from our karma and ended it
forever.
The Shift is bringing our karma with others to our
attention so that we can end it. We are all moving into
higher dimensions of being where karma does not exist.
And it is not possible for us to move forward into these
dimensions and take our karma with us. When dealing
with karma, it does not matter who is wrong or right-
karmic debts exist across multiple lifetimes during which
we have played many roles with our karmic partners,
both as the wronged party and the wrongdoer. At this
point in our spiritual evolution we recognize the need to
end karma, karmic patterns and relationships and are
empowered to do so. We end it by recognizing the
situations that occur to start the karmic cycle and to
make the decision to step away. Once we end karma
with someone, it is ended forever.
As the planet shifts its vibrations it is becoming
increasingly important for us to take every opportunity
to end our karma with others. It does not matter who is
right or wrong or how the other person reacts, we must
end our individual karma with those in our soul group
and karmic circles. Each time we do that, we help raise
the vibrations of the rest of humanity and help it
through the Shift. Is there someone in your life that
you feel compelled to apologize to and are reluctant to
do so because of how they will react? Trust your inner
guidance, ask your guides and angels if this is the right
step to take. If it is, offer a simple and sincere apology
or take any appropriate action with the intent of ending
your karma with this person so that you are free to
move forward on your own path and free you and them
to create a different reality, either together or apart,
free of karma.
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Uriel's Message--Act with Kindness
The focus of spiritual literature is on giving
unconditional love to everyone. That is a noble concept
but one that is hard to practice in the world you live in.
How do you show unconditional love to others? How do
you define unconditional love and what does it mean?
Spiritual concepts can have a global meaning but they
are interpreted according to an individual's
understanding, experience and level of spiritual
evolution. And each person is comfortable with different
levels of emotional expression and interaction. What
kinds of actions show unconditional love and how do
you start? You begin by acting with kindness.
Showing kindness to others is the beginning of the
practice of unconditional love. While you were born
knowing unconditional love, many of your life
experiences have taught you that the world and its
people are not kind and loving. This leads you to
distrust people and to question their motives and in
many cases, you know that this is true because you
have the experiences to prove it. Being told that you
should love everyone unconditionally is a big step, one
that many people have a hard time accepting because
they do not know how to go from distrust to
unconditional love. Kindness is the step in between.
Being kind to others does not have to involve exuberant
displays of affection. It can be as simple as
saying 'thank you' to someone, or telling someone that
you appreciate what they have done for you. Kindness
is shown in small ways that may seem insignificant to
you but your acts of kindness may be very important to
others. When you act in kindness you show others
that you acknowledge them. Kindness can only be
practiced in non-judgment-you cannot be kind to
others and expect them to be kind to you in return.
Kindness is a gift that you give to others and like any
gift, it must be given freely and without expectation of
reciprocity.
Acting with kindness takes practice and intention,
acknowledging the oneness and connection between
yourself and the rest of humanity. You all come from
the same place and have similar experiences. The
vibration of the planet and the passage through the
Shift depends on each person's ability to learn to be
kind to one another, to appreciate your similarities and
connection instead of focusing on your differences.
Kindness is the small step that you can take towards
understanding the power of unconditional love because
there is much power in simple acts of kindness. Be kind
to each other as it is the little things in life are the
most important, and remember that each act of
kindness that you show another is returned to you
multiplied a thousand fold.
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Today's Children-Adult Indigos and Divorce
There is a new generation of children in the world and
they are known by many names, including Indigo and
Crystal Children, Star Children, Light Children. Whatever
name they are known by, they are a generation that
we have never seen before and they have special
needs, gifts and talents. The Crystal and Indigo
children represent the new, higher energetic patterns
that are arriving to change the Earth's vibrational
frequency.This new series provides information on
these children and the wonderful gifts they bring to the
world.
The generation of children born in the 1950s and 1960s
carried the Indigo energy so that they could set the
stage for the children that they would have, the first
Indigo generation. As adult Indigos entered adulthood
they did what their parents did, they married young and
began their families. But their experience of marriage
was much different than that of their parents. They
were not able to accept the limitations that they saw
as being part of marriage, the requisite obedience and
tolerance of spousal behavior, as their parents had.
They were aware that there were other options
available to them and refused to believe that they had
to be married in order to be acceptable and to survive
emotionally and financially. And so they began to
divorce in great numbers. Some remarried and began
again with different partners; others decided not to
remarry and raised their families as single parents.
Some men even raised their children alone. And many
simply decided to remain single. Society and the
church saw this as a very bad thing and the demise of
our ordered world. But they did not understand the
Indigo energy.
I am surprised at the number of adult Indigos that I
know who have never married or if married, chose to
not have children. I also know very few adult Indigos in
the 40 to 55 year old age group, who have not been
divorced one or more times. Many of the single or
childless ones tolerate comments from well-meaning
friends and relatives about when they should marry or
have children. They just nod and smile and then get on
with their lives. Again, this is the Indigo energy at
work, the refusal to compromise their ethics and to do
what they know is right for them. It is interesting that
when the first Indigo generation was approaching the
age for marriage, in the 1950s and 1960s, television
shows showing happy, well-adjusted families with
children were on every major television network. This
was, of course, a myth. There are several excellent
recent movies that show what marriage was really like
at that time, and many families were not happy and
well adjusted. Those of us who lived during that time
know that all too well. While many adult Indigos may
have tried to experience the fairy tale marriage, when
they realized that it was not working for them, they
created the divorce rate that exists today.
The high divorce rate is a sign that society is changing,
not falling apart. Yes, the old models are dying, but
they need to change as they no longer serve
humanity's needs. At one time, divorce was a stigma, a
sign of personal failure. Now, divorce is much more
commonplace and accepted. The fact that it can still
be a traumatic experience has to do with the emotional
expectations around marriage and the ending of
the 'fairy tale.' Adult Indigos who feel that they have
done something wrong because they could not
tolerate-and in some cases, did not even enjoy-being
married need to understand that it is part of their
energetic makeup to step away from things that are
out of integrity for them and to resist anything that
imposes control and restriction. And they can be proud
of the fact that they have raised a generation of
children who do not 'need' a spouse for their emotional
and financial security. The changing demographics are
part of a cycle that we are all going through. When
today's Indigo children marry, the divorce rate will
decrease because they will make different choices, for
different reasons and will stay married once they decide
to make that decision. Adult Indigos played an
important role in establishing today's less restrictive
views on marriage and divorce and in ushering this new
cycle. That was their role, to change things for the
Indigo generation and they did it well.
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Events
The next Voices for Healing event will be on September
17 at the Arizona Enlightenment Center in Goodyear,
Arizona. Go to www.voicesforhealing.com for more
information.
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a monthly basis. These sessions provide intuitive
information and spiritual support to help you through
the changes that the Shift in Consciousness is
introducing in your life. Coaching is available on a
monthly basis, with four coaching sessions per month.
Email me at info@urielheals.com for more information.
About Uriel
Archangel Uriel is one of the seven Archangels that
stand at the throne of the God Creator and one of the
four major Archangels that serve humanity. Uriel rules
the mental plane, our thoughts and ideas, creativity,
insights, judgment, magic, alchemy, astrology, universal
consciousness, divine order, the distribution of power,
the cosmic universal flow and the Earth's environment.
Uriel is humanity's link to the spiritual realms and he can
show us how to find our inner power through a process
that will help each individual Shift in consciousness and
therefore accelerate the entire human kingdom's shift
into higher realms of consciousness
About the Channel and Author
I am a spiritual intuitive, author, speaker, teacher and
channel for the Archangel Uriel. My path has often
been challenging, which has provided me with the
insight and compassion that is required at this time
when humanity is shifting in consciousness. I am
honored to be a channel for the Archangel Uriel and to
help others through this process. For information on
how to schedule a seminar or workshop in your area,
email me for information at healing@urielheals.com.
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