This week's messages
Assuming Happiness and Love
If our assumptions assist in the creation of our reality,
why not use that power to assume the very best for
ourselves? What if we could assume that we would be
happy instead of focusing on not being unhappy? And if
we could assume that we would have an abundance of
love in our lives instead of focusing on not being
without love, or being hurt by those who love us? By
assuming positive, life-affirming aspects in our reality,
can we bypass the painful experiences? The answer is
yes, absolutely. All we have to do is to learn to start
assuming that we have what we want, instead of
assuming what we don't want.
Every painful experience leaves us with an image of
that incident permanently inscribed in our memory.
Then, each time that a similar incident arises, we do
everything that we can to avoid a recurrence of the
past. But we can go even farther and assume that any
situation will be a repeat of the past, so we avoid
everything. We're assuming that everything will go
wrong, and it often does. But we can turn that around
by assuming that everything that we want is already
part of our reality. When we assume that we will be
happy, for example, all of the situations that could
bring us unhappiness no longer cross our path. Or if
they do, we receive little reminders or signs that there
is danger in following that path. Of course, we can
choose to forge ahead anyway, but then we've made a
choice and if we're unhappy, we have to take
responsibility for ignoring the voice of our inner
guidance and creating unhappiness for ourselves.
The same strategy applies to love, in all its forms. Our
lives can be full of people who love, honor and respect
us if we will start assuming that this is possible for us.
We live in a Universe of limitless possibilities and our
energetic vibration connects with everything at our
frequency. If our frequency is focused on avoidance,
we call to us everything that we want to avoid. But if
our frequency is focused on what we want, then only
those things that we want will be available to us. The
rest will not even appear on our radar.
The Shift is making us aware that our lives extend
beyond what we can see, hear, feel and touch. There
are so many possibilities for our lives around us, each
one affording us the luxury of having exactly what we
want. If that is currently not your reality, then you
have the power to create that for yourselves. This
week, start assuming that your life will be filled with
happiness and love. Eliminate the avoidance strategies
because they're only attracting what you don't want.
Believe that the very best is always available to you
and assume that it is right there with you. Remember
that it may not always take the form that you think, so
pay attention to what the universe brings to you. Then
watch the miracles unfold and love and happiness will
be yours.
Read the August 2005 message...
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Blessings to you all!
The August article is posted on the Uriel Heals website
and this month's message is entitled Living by
Assumption. What if we could bring happiness and joy
to our lives just by assuming that they are already
there? We can if we stop focusing on what we do not
want and trying to avoid unhappiness. Read more in
this week's message. The topic of this week's Today's
Children article discusses the heart/mind connection
that Indigos have and how we can help them to
recognize those who are not working in their best
interests without forcing them to learn to mistrust.
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Loving the Bad Boy/Girl
A client recently asked me about a love relationship,
one that I could see was going to be very difficult and
painful for her. I told her that and she smiled and
said 'yes, but we always love the bad boys.' It isn't
that we love the 'bad' boys or girls and the people that
we classify as bad in relationship aren't bad at all. They
are there to teach us about our beliefs surrounding our
own self-worth and ability to love. And our attraction
to them has less to do with our search for love and
more with our our attempts at healing ourselves.
Many relationships have trouble written all over them
and yet we pursue them anyway. We deliberately
choose people who need help and healing and then
wonder why they eventually abandon us and our
attempts at healing them are unsuccessful. But who
are we really trying to heal? Many times, we choose
partners who need healing because we want validation
of our own worth. We believe that if we can heal the
the most 'unlovable' or difficult person and get them to
love us, then we will be lovable. Or, we choose this
kind of person to help us heal unresolved issues
between our father and/or mother or a past failed
relationship that made us question our self-worth or
ability to be loved. In reality, the people we choose to
heal mirror our own healing needs to us.
Whether we're trying to heal family issues or validate
our own love worthiness, choosing this kind of
relationship is not only challenging, it can move us
farther down the spiral of believing that we are not
worthy of love. And it can extend to other parts of our
lives. The person who chooses difficult romantic
relationships also chooses difficult jobs, lifestyles and
friends. Remember that everything in our lives exists on
a continuum and in balance, so difficulties in one area
are always reflected in other areas. And any
relationship with a bad boy/girl is also fraught with
drama. Through our attraction to them, are we facing
our own addiction to drama?
The person who is unlovable chooses that path for
herself and it is not up to us to try to change them. We
can try, of course, but if we decide to choose that
path, we should do so knowing that we are in for a wild
and perhaps unfulfilling ride. If we focus on how we are
worthy of what we want and deserve the best of every
situation, then we magnetize those things to us.
The 'bad' boy/girl will find their own path to healing, in
their own time. And the well-meaning partners who try
to help them may find, in time, that unless someone is
ready for healing, they will not acknowledge attempts
to heal them. If we are looking for relationships, of all
kinds, that love and honor us, we will find them and
they will be peaceful, respectful and filled with love, as
long as we heal ourselves and do not focus our healing
on healing others. So choose your relationships
carefully, fully understanding why you are choosing
them, avoiding those who need healing if doing that will
delay your own healing process. Remember that
everything in your reality is your choice-create what
you want and the people and situations that can bring
that to you will be available to you.
The Difference Between a Victor and a Victim is I AM »
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Uriel's Message--Love One Another
Love creates an energy that outlasts any other; in
fact, love never dies. The love that you share with
others, in any of the many forms that love can take,
lives long past the end of the relationship. Even your
casual daily encounters with people provide you with
many opportunities to show your unconditional love for
others. Each time you treat someone with love you
bless them with a gift that will outlast the briefest of
encounters. So the person that needs your help with a
small task, the one you smile at or say hello to, each of
these people is on your path to give you an opportunity
to spread love. And as you do that you give them and
yourself the gift of love.
The love that each person gives to others, freely and
without condition or expectation, is the highest form of
love in the Universe. This is not like the love that you
give to your romantic partner, family or friends. This is
the feeling of connection, the expression of humanity's
highest potential, and it can only be given freely,
without condition, from one person to another. While
scientists work hard to understand the technical
implications of the Universe, exploring the intricacies of
quantum theories and how things work, they do so from
an ego perspective. Much knowledge is hidden from
them because their search to know is fueled by their
desire to control. From the human perspective, if they
know how something works they can control it and use
the information for their own means.
Everything in the universe exists in simplicity, free of
control and love is the most simple, and yet most
complex of these concepts. There are no mysteries in
the Universe; all knowledge is available to everyone as
long as they begin with love. The Universe was created
with love and it exists with love. Nothing else matters.
Your ability to share your knowledge of love is what will
create love in your own reality. For you cannot expect
to receive love if you are unwilling to give it to
everyone, everywhere.
At this time your ability to share your knowledge of
unconditional love is what will delay and prevent the
most dire occurrences on the Earth plane. There are
doomsday prophecies that many are expecting
and yet none of them has to happen if humanity will
raise its frequencies by learning to love each other, to
share unconditional love with everyone. Your knowledge
of this empowers you to create miracles in your own
lives and to help others know what love really is. Each
time you give someone the gift of love you create a
resonance that is magnified thousands of times over
and helps to create the love frequency that will bring
peace and joy to everyone on the planet. The most
important thing that you can do is to love one another-
it was the great teacher Jesus' most direct and simple
commandment. It does not take effort, money or time,
yet it will be returned to you in ways that you cannot
imagine. Love one another and help bring peace to the
world.
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Today's Children-Mind and Heart
The new article on today's children is now available on
the website. This generation is known by
many names, including Indigo and Crystal Children, Star
Children, Light Children. Whatever name they are known
by, they are a generation that we have never seen
before and they have special needs, gifts and talents.
The Crystal and Indigo children represent the new,
higher energetic patterns that are arriving to change
the Earth's vibrational frequency.This new series
provides information on these children and the
wonderful gifts they bring to the world.
Indigos have great hearts, they are full of love and
emotion which they give freely to and share with
others. And they have brilliant minds that allow them to
focus with laser intent on the things that interest
them. It is this combination of mind and heart that is
their greatest strength, for they can infuse their intent
with a level of emotion that allows them to accomplish
great things in a way that truly creates sustainable and
positive change. Their ability to galvanize others, share
their vision and work towards their goals is the force
that empowers them to do their work.
But their trusting nature is not always discriminating, so
they often get hurt and taken advantage of by those
they trust. Because their motives are usually pure, they
are unable to perceive that others do not always mean
what they say. And they rarely question others'
motives, even if that fact is very obvious to others. As
the parent of Indigos, I have seen this happen many
times with my children and I suffer for them as they
don't always seem to learn the first time and go
through this process many times before they learn.
Once they are hurt enough times, though, they can
detach from their emotions and separate the mind from
the heart. Then they focus their intent without the
addition of the heart energy and the outcome is not
what they wanted. That can lead to disappointment,
disillusionment and they can stop whatever they are
doing.
It is difficult, if not impossible, to teach an Indigo to
not trust someone and we should not because that is
not what their energy is about. But we can help them
to recognize discordant energies, those that do not
match their frequencies, and this will help them identify
the people who may not be advantageous to their
efforts. By teaching them about energy and recognizing
the energetic vibrations of those who are not operating
at their level they can see these energies for
themselves and this will help keep them focused with
their mind/heart energy intact as well as gathering to
them the people who are on a similar path and can
relate to them on the same heart/mind level. We have
been gifted with these children because we are best
equipped to teach them what they need to learn to
succeed. By sharing what we know we will help them to
learn and become the agents of change that they came
here to be, and to do it successfully, without
compromising their true nature.
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Events
Year One of the Uriel Heals website is now available on
CD. This CD contains all of the newsletters and articles
from March 2004 to February 2005, over 200 pages of
the information and insights that readers have enjoyed.
Copies are available on the Uriel Heals website, the
Books page.
The seminar this weekend was a huge success-thanks
to all who participated. Upcoming classes are posted on
the website. Go to www.voicesforhealing.com to see
upcoming dates and venues.
Spiritual and life coaching sessions are now available on
a monthly basis. These sessions provide intuitive
information and spiritual support to help you through
the changes that the Shift in Consciousness is
introducing in your life. Coaching is available on a
monthly basis, with four coaching sessions per month.
Email me at info@urielheals.com for more information.
About Uriel
Archangel Uriel is one of the seven Archangels that
stand at the throne of the God Creator and one of the
four major Archangels that serve humanity. Uriel rules
the mental plane, our thoughts and ideas, creativity,
insights, judgment, magic, alchemy, astrology, universal
consciousness, divine order, the distribution of power,
the cosmic universal flow and the Earth's environment.
Uriel is humanity's link to the spiritual realms and he can
show us how to find our inner power through a process
that will help each individual Shift in consciousness and
therefore accelerate the entire human kingdom's shift
into higher realms of consciousness
About the Channel and Author
I am a spiritual intuitive, author, speaker, teacher and
channel for the Archangel Uriel. My path has often
been challenging, which has provided me with the
insight and compassion that is required at this time
when humanity is shifting in consciousness. I am
honored to be a channel for the Archangel Uriel and to
help others through this process. For information on
how to schedule a seminar or workshop in your area,
email me for information at healing@urielheals.com.
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