This week's messages
The Pity Trap
How much love we have in our lives is a reflection of
how much we love ourselves. This love is not limited
to romantic love, although we tend to focus on that
aspect of love, but every situation where we are
valued, honored and respected. When our life
experiences do not meet our expectations we tend to
see ourselves as not lovable or worthy. It is easy, then,
to start to feel sorry for ourselves because we do not
get the responses that we want from others. This is
the pity trap and it can lead us into a cycle of
powerlessness and depression that can be very hard
to come out of.
I have a friend who does not love himself and who
depends on others to create the abundance and joy
that he wants in his life. When they let him down,
because he attracts people who don't have the ability
to do that since they are a mirror of him, he feels like a
failure. And then he feels sorry for himself and gets
depressed and goes into the pity trap. When he is
ready to accept responsibility for his reality by stepping
into his power he will be able to create what he wants
in his life. But he is having a difficult time getting out of
the pity trap because as long as he continues to feel
sorry for himself he will not be able to move forward.
The pity trap is the place we go when we feel
helpless, powerless, unable to move forward and
without support. The path into the trap is through our
belief that we are powerless. The path out of the trap
is to remember that every aspect of our reality is within
our control and that we are powerful beyond measure.
While we are in the pity trap we will attract more
people and situations that will reflect our
powerlessness. When we are in the pity trap we are
not loving ourselves. The key to this understanding is
to remember Universe supports us according to our
beliefs and the energy that we are projecting. To
change the situation new must change the energy that
we are projecting.
We all have moments of self pity, where we feel that
we are just unlucky and can't envision the promise of
unconditional love, abundance, peace and joy for our
lives. How long we stay in the pity trap is up to us
because getting out of it requires that we see our
situation for what it is, an illusion based on our fear
and powerlessness. This week, if you are in a pity
trap, reflect on how you arrived there. Are you living a
manifestation of your fear? Which fear is it? Can you
change your belief about it? Can you move out of pity
and into power? When our reality is less than what we
want feeling sorry for ourselves is a choice that we
can take but a better choice is to remember our power
and step into it.
Read the August 2007 message...
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Blessings to you all!
The August article is posted on the Uriel Heals
website and this month's message is about the
process of love. Love is so important to us that we will
spend much of our lives seeking it. Once we
understand the process of love we can create it in our
lives. When our reality does not reflect the love we
want, we can fall into the Pity Trap, as discussed in
this week's article. Archangel Uriel's message is
about choosing the energy you respond from. Hear
this message by clicking
the link on the home page. This week's Today's
Children article looks at the relationship crisis that
many adult Indigos seem to be experiencing. The
series on Indigos and Suicide is available
on the Today's Children page in response to your
requests. Read the newsletter in Spanish at Zona
Mistica. The link is on the Uriel Heals home page.
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The Compassion Vortex
I have been in prayer all week for the people who died
or were injured in the bridge collapse in Minneapolis
and for their families. Thanks to the internet we are all
immediately aware of everything that happens around
the world and while this event happened in the US it
has been shared with everyone. This event that
touched people's hearts all over the world and it
created a compassion vortex, an opportunity for us to
open our hearts and send light to those who have
been affected. When we do this we create an opening
for unconditional love and a higher vibration for all.
We may see more of these kinds of events in the
coming months and our first response may be to
wonder why the Universe allows these kinds of things
to happen. But there are several things that we must
remember, the first being that each person is in
control of their reality and their soul contract. If they
have contracted to help raise the world
consciousness through personal sacrifice, they will
do so at the right time and in the way that best fulfills
their contract. And when the world is united in
compassion unconditional love resonates around the
world, providing healing and light to all.
We must also remember every situation is both a
lesson and a blessing. As Lightworkers we are able
to see past what appears to be happening to know
that everything occurs for the Highest Good of all.
Instead of focusing on the loss that has occurred, we
can give our light, our unconditional love and send
peace and healing. We know that we are all
participating in the Shift and in the raising of
humanity's vibrations. It is through opening our hearts
and sending light that we will fulfill the purpose of
each compassion vortex that opens.
This is an important time in our evolution and we are
all approaching critical mass, the time when we can
make exponential progress in the work of shifting our
vibrations. It is at these times when it appears that the
suffering increases, that times get worse and that
everything seems to go wrong. But this is when the
door opens for us to do what we have come here to
do, to spread light, to believe and trust that all is in
Divine Order and to know that we have the opportunity
to turn lessons into blessings for all of humanity.
Please join me in praying for the people who are part
of this event. Send them unconditional love and light
and use this event as an opportunity to strengthen our
connection to all and to spread light to the world.
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Uriel's Message-- Where Do You Respond From?
You have many options to choose from when you
respond to others. You can respond from fear and
judgment, your past experiences or your expectations
and beliefs. Or you can respond from detachment,
unconditional love, peace and joy. Each interaction
you have with another presents you with an
opportunities to choose from which place you will
respond. And what you respond from will be reflected
back to you with that person and will attract similar
situations to you.
Every time you respond from fear you create more fear
which results in drama and conflict. Angry people are
simply responding from their fears and trying to
connect with you in that area. If you choose to respond
from fear, you escalate the situation. Can you respond
with detachment, see their fears and choose to not
connect with them on that level? What is the reward for
meeting fear with fear? Can you respond to fear with
love? Consider that the person who tries to connect to
you from their fear is actually looking for someone
who can give them unconditional love.
The people in your life are playing a part in your reality
and when your fears, judgments, past experiences
and expectations are brought into focus it is because
they need healing. Instead of fighting with the person
who has brought this to light for you, bless and thank
them and choose to use this as a healing experience.
Your spiritual journey is one of healing and growth
and by learning to recognize when opportunities for
your healing are presented, you can use them to move
forward on your path.
The teacher Jesus said 'Be kind to those who hurt
you' and you show that kindness by using detachment
in your interactions with others and choosing from
which level of your spiritual knowledge you will
respond. Use your intuitive and spiritual guidance to
look past their words and to see that they are
responding from fear. Choose your own responses
carefully so that you can use these situations as
opportunities for spiritual healing and growth for
everyone involved. Remember that in everything you
are both teacher and student and are here to learn
and to instruct. Practice detachment in every situation
and you will create a vibration of unconditional love for
yourself and others.
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Today's Children--The Adult Indigo Relationship Crisis
I have had many readings with clients in the past few
weeks that focused on relationship issues and I
believe that many adult Indigos are experiencing a
shift in their relationships that for many has become a
crisis. From relationships that end suddenly to those
who can't find a partner, adult Indigos, both men and
women, are finding themselves in situations that they
don't understand or know how to address.
Relationships are shifting and we are being forced to
change what we choose, how we act and what we
accept from others.
As Indigo women step into their power they are
changing the balance in relationships and are no
longer willing to accept those in which they must be
powerless. It appears that many men are not yet ready
to accept powerful women so it seems that there is a
shortage of available partners. Once this energy has
shifted there is no turning back, we cannot go from
being powerful to being powerless. Hold your
intention for the relationship that you want and it will
come to you. Both men and women are being
challenged to create relationships that are heart
centered, so those that are centered on the lower
energies, power, ego and sex, are no longer available
or as appealing.
Indigo men are going through their own emotional
shifts and they are learning some difficult lessons at
this time. I know an Indigo man who was so focused
on his career goals that he ignored his wife, who
recently divorced him. He is devastated but
understands that he had detached from her
emotionally but never thought that she would leave.
He will recover and has learned a difficult lesson that
he will not repeat. Other men simply do not
understand how to function in relationships any more
and are withdrawing until they can find a point of
balance, so they are emotionally unavailable. When
they are able to relate from their heart center they will
be ready for a relationship.
The relationship shift is changing how we choose our
partners and as we become more aware of ourselves,
including changing our feelings about who we are and
what we want, we become more powerful. We
become more aware of whether we want additional
lessons and whether we will accept difficult or non-
heart centered relationships. Indigos came to create
change in every area of life and this is true of
relationships as well. The changes that are occurring
will balance out and we simply have to hold the energy
of what we want and allow it to come to us. The older
Indigos are teaching the younger ones some valuable
relationship lessons at this time and they will learn
from our example. We may have to accept, for a while,
that we will be alone but this will pass and we will
eventually create wonderful and fulfilling relationships
for ourselves as long as we stay focused on what we
want and stand in our power.
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Spiritual Mentoring
I am now offering a spiritual mentoring program,
where
we will focus on your spiritual growth, current issues
or
problems and work through a solution. This program
is
available in blocks of four weekly sessions where we
work together to help you move past whatever is
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website on the Spiritual Mentoring page. This program
is different from miracle coaching in that you choose
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Sessions are one-on-one and by telephone so
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Do you really need a miracle right now? Do you wish
you could focus on getting whatever you
needed in your life, at this moment ,and have it
appear? The Miracle Coaching program can teach
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The 8 week Miracle Program will teach you how to
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Information is available on the Uriel Heals website,
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About Uriel
Archangel Uriel is one of the seven Archangels that
stand at the throne of the God Creator and one of the
four major Archangels that serve humanity. Uriel rules
the mental plane, our thoughts and ideas, creativity,
insights, judgment, magic, alchemy, astrology,
universal
consciousness, divine order, the distribution of power,
the cosmic universal flow and the Earth's
environment.
Uriel is humanity's link to the spiritual realms and he
can
show us how to find our inner power through a
process
that will help each individual Shift in consciousness
and
therefore accelerate the entire human kingdom's shift
into higher realms of consciousness
About the Channel and Author
I am a spiritual intuitive, author, speaker, teacher and
channel for the Archangel Uriel. My path has often
been challenging, which has provided me with the
insight and compassion that is required at this time
when humanity is shifting in consciousness. I am
honored to be a channel for the Archangel Uriel and to
help others through this process. For information on
how to schedule a seminar or workshop in your area,
email me for information at healing@urielheals.com.
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