This week's messages
Are you Lucky in Love?
If there's one area in life where we tend to feel unlucky
it's in the area of romance. Each of us has a story of
love gone bad, where a partner was unfaithful, unkind,
untruthful, or treated us badly. We all have had the
experience of unmet expectations, disappointments and
heartache in relationships. Some of us have even had
several of those experiences. And they can lead us to
believe that we are just plan unlucky when it comes to
romance, to the point where we can become unwilling
to put ourselves in the situation of trying one more time
to find and keep a romantic relationship in our lives. If
we truly believe that we are unlucky in love then we
will continue to attract difficult relationships. We must
trust that we can create the relationship of our
dreams, becoming lucky in love, even if our past
experiences prove otherwise.
It seems so difficult to find that one person, that
kindred spirit, that will make our heart sing, give us the
companionship, love and security that we all seek. We
look at those who appear to have that and think that
they are lucky. And if we don't have it, or have not
been able to create it, we're unlucky. That's our
perception and while our past reality may have
reflected that, it was also our choices that created
that reality. But like everything else in our lives, it
starts with us. If we don't believe that we can be lucky
in the area of romance, then we never will be. We
become lucky in love by following the same process
that we do to manifest anything in our life-we decide
what we want, believe that we can have it and act as
though it's already ours. And we have to know that
luck in love is out there for us and trust that it will
come. All we have to do is 'put ourselves out there'.
But this time, with a different twist.
Opening ourselves to the experience of relationships
requires that we become vulnerable, which brings up
the memories of all of our previous unlucky relationship
experiences. And that brings the fear that that could
happen again. Yes, it could but it also could be
something totally different. Taking the first step is
difficult unless we start with establishing what we want
in the context of the belief that we can have it. It
doesn't matter what happened before, we have the
power and ability to create a new and different
experience for ourselves in relationships as long as we
have a strong conviction that this time we will
be 'lucky' and create the possibility for a fulfilling and
joyful relationship that meets our every need.
We create our own luck in relationships, as we do in
every other area of our lives. Our belief that we are
unlucky in love stems from the past but we must live in
the now, in the present moment. No matter what our
past experiences brought us, each new day brings us
the opportunity to create something different, a life
that is full of joy. To create love in our lives we must
focus exclusively on whatever we want to create and
keep that focus, remembering that what we attract
resonates with our beliefs. When we learn to master
our beliefs, we control everything that happens to us
and around us, including the kind of love that we
experience. Focus on being lucky in love and you will
create the loving relationships of your dreams.
Read the July 2005 message...
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Blessings to you all!
The July article is posted on the Uriel Heals website and
this month's message is entitled 'Are you Being Lucky?
Do you think that you're unlucky in love? We can have
that opinion after one (or several) difficult relationships.
But we create our luck in relationships and this week's
article discusses how we can all be 'lucky in love.'
The topic of this week's Today's Children discusses the
Indigos' favorite expression, 'whatever' and how they
may have a valuable lesson for all of us by taking
a 'whatever' attitude towards live. And, a new article is
posted on the Today's Children page, on how Indigos
are blurring the gender lines.
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The Last Word in Lonesome is Me
When I was a little girl, my mother (who loved country
music) used to play a Jim Reeves song that was
entitled 'The Last Word in Lonesome is Me.' I thought it
was a silly title until I learned how to spell and realized
that the title was right. The last word in 'lonesome'
is 'me.' And so I thought it was a terrible thing to be
lonesome, alone and without a relationship. And I kept
that belief for many years. Remembering the words to
the song, it referred feeling bad because the singer
didn't have a relationship any longer. We all feel
lonesome or lonely at one time or another, but is that a
bad thing? If we look at the messages that we receive
from the world, we can believe that it is and feel like
our lives are miserable (as in the song) if we're alone
and that there's something wrong with us if we are not
perpetually involved in a relationship.
As humans, we are conditioned to need human contact,
especially with one significant person who can meet our
emotional needs. After all, if we're lonely it's generally
because we do not believe that we have people who
care about us or who want to spend time with us (or
who we want to spend time with). We can be lonely in
many situations-we can be lonely in a relationship,
lonely within our family, lonely in social groups and even
lonely in our community. Loneliness is not only
relegated to romantic relationships. We believe that
we're lonely if we don't have friends, social contacts or
others who care about what is happening in our lives.
And it is something that crosses all social and economic
lines--no matter how much money or material goods we
have, we all have to face our need for companionship,
for genuine caring and if we don't have that, we feel
lonely.
The media doesn't help, as we are showered with
images of people interacting, spending time together,
having fun, being in relationships. But who really lives
like that? Are we feeling lonely (and desperate)
because our lives don't resemble those that we see on
the TV and in movies? That's something for us to think
about because trying to live up to the media version of
life is futile and impossible. And if we feel that we are
failing or that there's something wrong with us because
our reality doesn't mirror what we see on film, we're
only being hard on ourselves and making our situation
worse. And there's something else for us to consider if
we're feeling lonely. Being alone is a chance for us to
assess our life, what we want and who we are. Are we
lonely, or just alone? Is it permanent or temporary? Do
we really want others in our lives or just the distraction
of having someone to spend time with? If we're lonely
is it because we're seeking companionship and caring
from people who can't or won't give it to us?
If we focus on how alone we are we get more of the
same. Remember that we attract what we focus on.
And if we're lonely, why is that our situation and what
are we doing about it? Are we making an attempt to
meet people, to interact with others, to create a group
of like-minded friends, or are we sitting in front of the
computer or the TV, bored because we have nothing to
do and are all alone? Are we waiting for the Universe to
dump a solution on our doorstep, or are we actively
doing something about it? The Universal energy works
with us and responds to our actions and it blesses us
with what we ask for. So if you're lonely or alone it's a
great opportunity for you to assess what that means to
you, why you are feeling that way and what you can
do to start taking action. All we have to do is take
action and the Universe will provide the rest. Loneliness
is not a punishment and it does not have to be
permanent. It is our choice to have time to step back,
take a personal inventory and figure out what we want
next. And then take the first steps to change the
situation so that the Universe can work with that
energy and provide us with what we are asking for.
The Difference Between a Victor and a Victim is I AM »
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Uriel's Message
If the Universe could give you one hint to help you
make your path easier, it would be to tread lightly
through life. You live under the illusion that life is
serious, demanding and that it must be lived within the
scope of what the world defines as accomplishment and
success. And you are surrounded by a steady stream of
emotional energies that have the potential to create
chaos in your lives. In fact, everything around you is
not as concrete as it seems to you-it is all just
potential, waiting for you to interact with it. With your
history of karma and emotional chaos, it can be very
tempting to engage with whatever emotional energy
crosses your path. But if you want to walk an easier
path, you must learn to tread lightly, carefully choosing
what and who you interact with.
The emotional chaos and karma will no longer fit with
the new vibrational energy that the Shift is bringing.
This is no longer the time to react to every energy that
crosses your path. It is time to tread lightly, to take
the position of the observer and to look beyond what
appears to be real and use your intuition and guidance
to assess whether it is in synch with what you want. If
you want peace and joy, why connect with energies
that bring chaos and unhappiness? When you tread
lightly, you have no need for chaos because your focus
in no longer on those energies. You can always
experience chaos if you choose to do so, but you can
also make other choices-your possibilities are now
unlimited.
When you tread lightly through life you are aware of all
of the possibilities around you and choose the one that
best fits your purpose and intention for your reality.
That doesn't mean that you resist those energies
because what you resist will push back. Instead, you
can allow the energy to flow past you and if you do not
provide it with a connection or an opening into your
consciousness, it cannot enter your reality. There will
always be chaotic energies on the earth for that is part
of its experience but you do not have to allow that to
become part of your reality. Instead, you can choose
which energies you experience. That is the blessing of
the Shift, providing you with control over your reality
and life experience.
You now have the power to choose the path your life
takes and it is a tremendous blessing and humanity's
reward for raising its vibrations at this time. But you are
still subject to your free will and it is through willful
intention that you are able to choose which energies
you connect to. This week take an inventory of the
energies that you are connected to. Do they allow you
to tread lightly, or do you feel like you're treading
water, floundering in a sea of emotional chaos? What
choices did you make to create that reality and what
choices are you willing to make to remove yourself from
those experiences? Are you willing to tread lightly
through life, lightening your path and removing yourself
from the experience of chaos so that your life
experience is one of joy and peace? At this wonderful
time you have the power to make those choices and
remember that there is no right or wrong choice, only
the choices that you make and what you decide you
want your reality to look like.
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Today's Children-Indigos, the Whatever Generation
The new article on today's children is now available on
the website. This generation is known by
many names, including Indigo and Crystal Children, Star
Children, Light Children. Whatever name they are known
by, they are a generation that we have never seen
before and they have special needs, gifts and talents.
The Crystal and Indigo children represent the new,
higher energetic patterns that are arriving to change
the Earth's vibrational frequency.This new series
provides information on these children and the
wonderful gifts they bring to the world.
There is an expression that many Indigos today use.
It's 'whatever', said with a certain intonation and look
that implies, 'I don't care,' I'm not going to get involved
in this,' 'This is not important to me,' or 'it's not my
problem.' As an Indigo parent, hearing 'whatever' used
to make me so angry because I couldn't argue with it
and saw it as a dismissal of our conversation, which it
was. Many parents take it to mean that these children
are being disrespectful, not interested in what is going
on around them, aren't willing to get involved and that's
partly what they are telling us. What they really mean
by 'whatever' is that it is not important, it doesn't
matter because they know, through their innate
spiritual understanding, that it doesn't matter at all.
They know that they can choose what they focus their
emotional energy and intention on and that what others
think about that is not important. They know, and are
one of the first generations to know, that they don't
have to be part of others' reality and that their
potential is unlimited and that's a powerful
understanding.
'Whatever' has the same meaning today as 'groovy' did
in the 1960s. It is the Indigo generation's answer to the
pressure to conform, to be what others want them to
be and do what's expected of them. They know that
the social paradigms have changed and that there is no
reward for conformity. What's different today is that
they are more worldly, more knowledgeable than
previous generations. And they have more intuitive
knowledge at their disposal than we give them credit
for. If you'll notice when they use the expression, a
pattern will become very obvious. Try to get an Indigo
to do something that they don't want to do, or to force
them to see things your way, 'whatever' may be their
response. It's not always meant to be disrespectful, it's
their way of telling us that they aren't buying into our
argument and more than that, that they aren't
interested in arguing about it either.
Perhaps more of us should follow the Indigo's examples
and take a 'whatever' approach to life. It can possibly
open us to other possibilities, to prevent us from
becoming involved in life's details and take a bigger
picture view of life. 'Whatever' can become our new
mantra when we realize that 'whatever' is possible-and
anything is possible, a potential reality, in the Indigo
view of life. Something in their life isn't
working, 'whatever,' it's not worth getting all worked up
over because something else will turn up. And it always
does. The Indigos know that whatever is happening
today will be different tomorrow and that it is not worth
their effort to become fixated on anything in particular,
especially if that means buying into someone else's
view of reality. Maybe 'whatever' isn't such a bad thing
and if we're to understand and work with the Indigo
energy, then we will have to understand
that 'whatever' can be a good thing. Even adult
Indigos, who have a similar approach to life as today's
Indigo children, can benefit from taking a 'whatever'
approach occasionally. It will remove the pressure to
conform, the reactionary approach to life and open the
door to unlimited possibilities. It may cause a few
eyebrows to raise in surprise, but it will give us time to
breathe, to relax and to step out of the frenzy for a
while and just take a break and do 'whatever' we want.
When life throws us a curve ball, we can learn from the
Indigos and just say 'whatever' and know that
something else will turn up. And it always does.
Today's Children »
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Events
I will begin teaching classes in the Phoenix metro area
in August. The class topics and location are posted
on the Seminars page of the Uriel Heals website.
On August 20, I will be presenting a half-day healing
worksho, Voices for Healing, The Keys to Spiritual
Growth and Transformation, in Prescott, Arizona.
Location and Registration information will be posted
next week.
Spiritual and life coaching sessions are now available on
a monthly basis. These sessions provide intuitive
information and spiritual support to help you through
the changes that the Shift in Consciousness is
introducing in your life. Coaching is available on a
monthly basis, with four coaching sessions per month.
Email me at info@urielheals.com for more information.
About Uriel
Archangel Uriel is one of the seven Archangels that
stand at the throne of the God Creator and one of the
four major Archangels that serve humanity. Uriel rules
the mental plane, our thoughts and ideas, creativity,
insights, judgment, magic, alchemy, astrology, universal
consciousness, divine order, the distribution of power,
the cosmic universal flow and the Earth's environment.
Uriel is humanity's link to the spiritual realms and he can
show us how to find our inner power through a process
that will help each individual Shift in consciousness and
therefore accelerate the entire human kingdom's shift
into higher realms of consciousness
About the Channel and Author
I am a spiritual intuitive, author, speaker, teacher and
channel for the Archangel Uriel. My path has often
been challenging, which has provided me with the
insight and compassion that is required at this time
when humanity is shifting in consciousness. I am
honored to be a channel for the Archangel Uriel and to
help others through this process. For information on
how to schedule a seminar or workshop in your area,
email me for information at healing@urielheals.com.
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