This week's messages
Judging Luck
We judge luck when we compare our situation to that
of someone else. And it's easy to do. Our friend meets
a wonderful new partner and we have no one. Or a
business associate that has shared our pain while
working at a difficult job gets a new job and leaves.
Who's feeling unlucky-and maybe a bit envious?
Looking at these situations, we can wonder what we're
doing wrong or why we have the bad luck of not being
able to make progress. But when we make these kinds
of judgments we put ourselves in the situation of
making assumptions about what's going on in others'
lives and then we develop a we-them mentality,
comparing ourselves with others. Not only does this
cause us pain but it also blocks our own luck from
materializing.
Each of us is on our own path and while our paths may
intersect with others, our life experience is truly our
own. What is going on in someone else's life is part of
their lessons and that is information that we are not
and indeed cannot be privy to. We will never know the
full extent of someone else's lessons so when we
compare what's happening in their lives to what is (or
isn't) happening in ours, we are comparing apples to
oranges-there is no comparison. We cannot base our
luck on what others have or are.
But what's worse is when we make judgments about
luck, categorizing situations and events as lucky or
unlucky we create a block on our path. This becomes
even more important when we make those judgments
about others' lives. If we think that others are more
lucky than we are, then we have just created a path
for ourselves that will reinforce that belief. Every
judgment that we, about ourselves and others, blocks
the flow of energy in our lives and creates resistance.
The resistance creates more of what we consider to be
unlucky because that is what we are focusing our
attention on. We can't be more lucky than someone
else, we can just create positive flows of energy in our
own lives. What happens in others' lives is their own
reality, that we cannot imitate it in any way. What
works for others will not work for us because our reality
is of our making, emanating from our beliefs about what
we want, need and deserve.
Going back to the earlier examples, perhaps the new
relationship will provide your friend with lessons that
she needs to learn and may not turn out the way you
think it will. The same goes for the co-worker who now
has a new job. Your new experiences will come in time
and if you don't spend unnecessary time envying what
you perceive as their 'good luck' you will help speed
that process. This week, look at those around you who
you believe are having 'good luck.' Remember that this
is your perception of the situation. Now focus on what
you want to attract to you to bring positive change in
your life. Always keep your focus on your needs and
desires, be happy for the blessings that others receive
and that will magnify the 'good luck' that comes your
way.
Read the July 2005 message...
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Blessings to you all!
The July article is posted on the Uriel Heals website and
this month's message is entitled 'Are you Being Lucky?
This week's article looks how we block our luck by
creating judgments and comparing ourselves to others.
We make our own luck by not basing it on what others
do, have or are. Read more in this week's article. The
topic of this week's Today's Children article continues
the discussion on the Confused Indigos and how they
got that way. And, a new article is posted on the
Today's Children page, on how Indigos are blurring the
gender lines.
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Emotional Clutter
We all have emotional clutter in our lives, bits and
pieces of emotions left over from past relationships and
situations that were disappointing, disillusioning, or
downright painful. This emotional clutter is like hair in a
sink drain-it eventually backs up until we do the work
to clear it out. Our emotional clutter, if unattended to,
can make us angry and bitter over time. It can make us
feel undeserving, unlovable and unworthy of a
wonderful, happy and fulfilling life. Over time, we can
become so accustomed to the negative messages of
emotional clutter that they become our truth and
believe it. Then it's time to get to work and clear it out.
We know that we're dealing with emotional clutter
when our reaction to someone is disproportionate to
the situation. For example, a friend mentions that they
had a good time and we respond in anger because we
weren't invited. Or we are criticized for something and
we mull over it for days. Or our partner complains about
doing household chores and we yell at them for an hour
about how unappreciative they are. This is emotional
clutter at work, as all of these negative emotions are
there in the background, reminding us of all of the times
when things didn't work out, when we weren't
appreciated, when we failed. It's toxic energy at work
and it can make our lives and our relationships toxic too.
Clearing out emotional clutter is much like cleaning out
a closet that hasn't been cleaned in a while. There are
things that we no longer need, are no longer
appropriate for our lives, even things that we no longer
have an interest in keeping. But to clean then out we
have to look at them, try them on, remember why we
acquired them in the first place and then make a
decision to let them go. Because emotional clutter
involves our mental and emotional processes, we must
look at the emotions, remember when we acquired them
and then make a decision to let them go. That process
involves forgiveness, of ourselves and of others,
because only when we truly forgive can we release
what we no longer need and move on.
It can be very tempting to hang on to emotional clutter
because in a way, it's comfortable. At times, it can
empower us when we really need to speak out and
defend ourselves. It's much easier to justify our anger
when we can recall a similar situation in the past. But
left unchecked, emotional clutter becomes more
baggage that we carry with us into each situation and
relationship that we encounter. It's now time to rid
ourselves of the emotional clutter so that we can move
forward with this new energy without the baggage from
the past. If there's emotional clutter in your life, take a
look at it, remember why you took it on in the first
place, try it on to see if it's still something you want to
wear and if not, release it with unconditional love and
forgiveness and let it go. Your life will be much happier
and more fulfilling without it.
The Difference Between a Victor and a Victim is I AM »
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Uriel's Message
This is a time of great changes in the energy that
humanity operates under. You will notice that time, as
you know it, appears to be speeding up. It no longer
takes weeks or months for situations to change-they
appear to change almost immediately. Suddenly, you
may lose your job, have an opportunity to move to
another area, find that your partner has left you. Or
you work hard towards something only to discover that
you no longer want it. This is the Shift energy at work
and over the next six months it will speed up even
more. You may at times feel out of control, disoriented
and lost and the world that you know seems to be
falling apart but that is not what is happening. The
changes that occurring are necessary for your soul's
growth and the changes are happening so that you can
more easily move forward in to the new paradigm for
your life.
It is human nature to stay with what is comfortable,
even if it is not optimal. But that can no longer happen
in the Shift. Those of you who are here to be healers
and teachers are now being called to your work.
Because you know and are comfortable with your
connection to Spirit, you do not understand that there
are many who walk in complete darkness, who are
totally unaware of the link between humanity and the
spirit world. These are those that you have come to
work with and they will, in increasing numbers, be
drawn to you and to your energy. Those who once
labeled you as 'strange' will now want to hear you and
to be with you because they sense the energetic
changes and are afraid but have no understanding of
what is happening.
Do not feel that you are going through these changes
alone. Lightworkers everywhere are highly sensitive to
these changes and you will notice that even those who
are not as sensitive are feeling the energy. They may
be tired, irritable and distracted and it is because they
sense that the old ways are leaving and the new ways
are coming in. What is being taken away is necessary
because the new must be your primary focus and with
this energy, you cannot bring in the new while still
clinging to the old.
No one can tell you how long this process will take,
how it will turn out and what your life will look like as
you progress through the Shift. Creating your reality is
up to you, it is your responsibility. But there is one
thing that you can do to help things along. You can
expect to be taken care of, provided for and have your
needs met. Every day, remind yourself that you are
here to bring heaven on earth and there is no reason
that your life cannot reflect that paradigm today, in
every way. As you go through your day, when you
awaken in the morning and before going to sleep at
night, remind yourself that you expect the Universe to
provide for your every need. And it will be so. As
within, so without. Keep the energy flowing around you,
walk within the flow and the Divine will always surround
you with peace, joy and abundance.
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Today's Children-The Confused Indigos, Part 2
The new article on today's children is now available on
the website. This generation is known by
many names, including Indigo and Crystal Children, Star
Children, Light Children. Whatever name they are known
by, they are a generation that we have never seen
before and they have special needs, gifts and talents.
The Crystal and Indigo children represent the new,
higher energetic patterns that are arriving to change
the Earth's vibrational frequency.This new series
provides information on these children and the
wonderful gifts they bring to the world.
If today's Indigos seem unmotivated and unable (or
unwilling) to find purpose and direction in their lives, it
may come from their upbringing. Not that their parents
were necessarily bad parents, but Indigos were
parented by a generation who were determined to not
repeat the mistakes of their parents and to give their
children everything that they lacked as children. So the
parents worked hard, sacrificed and ensured that their
children had all of the love and opportunities that they
could provide, as well as all of the material things that
they never had. What has come from the parents'
efforts is a generation that has everything that they
could possibly want, and more. They have more money
than their parents ever did, are well traveled, well
dressed, well educated and more global than any other
generation. So why are they finding it so hard to make
their entrance into the world?
For all of their wonderful energy, Indigos can easily
step into complacency-in plain words, they can be
lazy. They know what they're capable of, they know
their strengths and what is possible for them but they
often choose to do nothing. Part of that is fear, they
are afraid of making wrong or bad choices, so they
make no choice. They are also a generation that has
been put under extreme pressure to perform and
succeed. Today's young adult Indigos are the children
of the 1980s and 1990s, who were educated in
language, art, music, dance and literature before they
ever started kindergarten! Even the school systems,
during the last 20 years, put tremendous pressure on
these children to succeed. Now, they are a generation
that appears to be burned out on success because
they have had so much of it. And unappreciative
because they have always had everything. What is
next?
Understanding that a large part of their lack of
motivation comes from fear of failure is one way to help
Indigos start moving into adulthood. Acknowledging
that we don't or won't judge their mistakes, or them, is
another, as is talking to them about their worries and
allowing them to be less confident, capable and
successful than we may have led them to believe that
we wanted. Indigos tend to have better relationships
with their parents when they are older and the need to
reconnect seems to be very strong now. Some Indigos
who were highly successful earlier in their lives, are
simply burned out on success. Some are afraid that
they will not have the material success that their
parents provided, so they choose to stay at home,
where they're comfortable. But while we have to give
them some leeway, we can't believe that they will get
out of this by themselves, as previous generations
would have, because they seem to be unable to muster
the energy to do that. With our help, though, they can.
We can help them find their passion and direction by
being supportive but insistent, loving but disciplined and
reflecting in our own lives the acceptance, joy and
abundance that we are here to teach them.
Today's Children »
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Events
I will begin teaching classes in the Phoenix metro area
in August. The class topics and location will be posted
on the website.
On August 20, I will be presenting a half-day healing
workshop in Prescott, Arizona. More information will be
available in the next few weeks.
Spiritual and life coaching sessions are now available on
a monthly basis. These sessions provide intuitive
information and spiritual support to help you through
the changes that the Shift in Consciousness is
introducing in your life. Coaching is available on a
monthly basis, with four coaching sessions per month.
Email me at info@urielheals.com for more information.
About Uriel
Archangel Uriel is one of the seven Archangels that
stand at the throne of the God Creator and one of the
four major Archangels that serve humanity. Uriel rules
the mental plane, our thoughts and ideas, creativity,
insights, judgment, magic, alchemy, astrology, universal
consciousness, divine order, the distribution of power,
the cosmic universal flow and the Earth's environment.
Uriel is humanity's link to the spiritual realms and he can
show us how to find our inner power through a process
that will help each individual Shift in consciousness and
therefore accelerate the entire human kingdom's shift
into higher realms of consciousness
About the Channel and Author
I am a spiritual intuitive, author, speaker, teacher and
channel for the Archangel Uriel. My path has often
been challenging, which has provided me with the
insight and compassion that is required at this time
when humanity is shifting in consciousness. I am
honored to be a channel for the Archangel Uriel and to
help others through this process. For information on
how to schedule a seminar or workshop in your area,
email me for information at healing@urielheals.com.
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