This week's messages
Emotional Alignment
When I tell clients that they can choose the emotions
that they experience in their lives I receive responses
that range from disbelief to awe. Most are surprised to
learn that they have a choice in the area of emotions
because for so they felt that their emotions have been
in control and they were helpless to manage them.
But in order to live in alignment we must learn that we
have control over our emotions and can choose the
range and types of emotional energy that we allow in
our lives.
The type of emotional energy that we choose covers
every aspect of the emotional spectrum. We can
choose to be angry, sad, resentful, fearful or any of the
emotions in what I will call the 'negative' end of the
emotional spectrum. Or we can choose to be happy,
appreciative, at peace and in unconditional love,
the 'positive' end of the emotional spectrum. Most of
us will choose somewhere in between, where we
experience a variety of emotions, both positive and
negative, often choosing the positive only after we
have been too long in the negative. For example, we
will consider being happy when we have been
unhappy for far too long.
The range of emotions that we choose determines
how much emotional energy we will experience.
Together with the type of emotional energy, we can be
very angry, sad resentful or fearful or very joyful, at
peace, appreciative and in unconditional love. How
much joy can we allow ourselves to experience? How
much fear are we willing to tolerate? Often we must
experience the full side of the negative spectrum
before we allow ourselves to wander into the other
side. That is not to say that one is better than the
other. We must often experience sadness before we
can understand and appreciate happiness. We must
know fear before we can learn to be unafraid.
As with everything in our reality, the emotional energy
that we choose to experience is completely within our
control. Our spiritual self does not know emotion; we
gain that knowledge through our human or material
self. And it is through our emotional interactions with
others that we learn about and heal our karma. When
we are in alignment, we learn to balance our
emotions so that those we choose to experience,
positive or negative, are conscious choices, not things
that simply appear in our reality. And even within those
emotional interchanges that surprise us we can
detach from them, even briefly, and know that we have
chosen this experience to learn more about
ourselves. This week, look at the emotional energy
that is present in your life. Consider the types and
range of emotions that you are experiencing. You can
choose to change them and choose joy over sadness,
to be happy over being unhappy, to be in unconditional
love over fear. When you do this you align yourself with
the reality that is in your highest good. It is your choice
and always within your power to do so.
Read the May 2007 message...
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Blessings to you all!
The May article is posted on the Uriel Heals website
and this month's message is about being in
alignment. Our soul's journey is focused on learning
to be in alignment, where our spiritual and material
worlds become one. When we are in alignment,
everything in our life flows. When we aren't, things are
difficult. Learning to align our emotions is
this week's message.
Archangel Uriel's message is about surrendering to
freedom. Hear this message by clicking the link on
the home page. This week's Today's Children article
is about how sometimes we can be of greatest help
our Indigo children by not being available to help
them.
The series on Indigos and Suicide
is available on the Today's Children page in response
to your requests. Read the newsletter in Spanish at
Zona Mistica. The link is on the Uriel Heals home
page.
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What Are You Responsible For?
When a friend who had just lost another job came to
me for help with finding other things to do with her life,
I spent time reviewing multiple options with her and
offering to even go with her to local community college
to help her get information and be a supportive
presence. But a month later nothing has happened
and although I have made several calls to remind her
of my willingness to help, she is not following through
with what she has to do and there is nothing more that
I can do. Although her situation is difficult, I cannot be
responsible for the outcome when she is unwilling to
make any steps to change or take control of it.
We can help others with their life situations and offer
support and information but we are not responsible
for the outcome. Just as we can offer healing energy
to those who come to us for healing we are not
responsible for their healing, although we may take
responsibility for that and then wonder about our own
abilities when it does not happen. Understanding
what we are and are not responsible for makes a
difference in knowing what we can and cannot do for
others.
As Lightworkers we are responsible for bringing light
and healing to the world and that starts within our own
reality, which is the only thing that we are truly
responsible for. We can take responsibility for others if
we choose to do so but then we limit our ability to
focus on our reality because we are busy focusing on
someone else's. How much energy are we willing to
put towards another's healing knowing that whether
they are able to heal, step into their power, find peace,
understand their emotions and create their own reality
is within their control?
When we take responsibility for our own reality we
have all that we can handle. If we take responsibility
for others' realities, even those who really need our
help, we are setting ourselves up for possible
disappointment. While we can help them when they
ask, we must find the balance between offering help
and being responsible for creating the best outcome
for them. Only they can be responsible for that and
sometimes it is their lesson about understanding and
knowing their power and learning to manifest their
reality. We are responsible for doing that in our own
life and for showing others by example. They will learn
far more from seeing the joy, peace and abundance in
our lives than they will by us being responsible for
creating that outcome for them.
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Uriel's Message--Surrender to Freedom
If your life seems to be weighed down with obligations
and responsibilities and you feel that you do not have
the freedom to do what you want, remember that your
reality is always under your control and you must learn
to define what freedom means to you and then
surrender to it. Your definition of freedom may have
been defined for you by others and may reflect on what
you feel you are able to do in your life. But freedom
starts from within and having freedom in your life is a
way of being. What does it mean for you to be free?
Understand that and you can surrender to freedom.
The level of freedom you experience in your outer
reality is a reflection of what exists within your inner
reality. You cannot do what you want to do in your outer
world unless you are first willing to give yourself the
freedom to be whatever you want to be, can be and
are able to be. Your willingness to release your fears
and doubts about your power and abilities is the first
place to start. This creates opportunities for freedom
in every area of your life, even opportunities that may
be surprising or not what you expected.
Your desire to have freedom in your life is a
manifestation of your soul's desire to express your
gifts to their fullest potential. This could be your
response to having created a reality that reflects
someone else's vision of what you should do, or one
that has always been limited by your fears. Once you
are able to surrender to freedom you can create
exactly what you want because there are no limitations
and you are truly free to experience the reality that
reflects your heart's desire. Often, you must allow
yourself the freedom to explore this aspect of yourself
before you can create the reality that reflects it.
When you surrender to freedom you allow yourself to
experience life on an effortless level, where you work
together with the universal energy to create miracles
and manifest your reality in response to your every
need. Effortless living is available to each of you when
you surrender to freedom and release everything that
is not bringing you joy. This week, consider how much
freedom you have allowed yourself to have. What does
freedom mean to you and what is your soul calling you
to recognize about your gifts, talents and abilities in
order to create inner freedom? Allow these gifts to
come forward and then surrender to freedom so you
can move into the flow of effortless manifestation and
create the reality of your dreams.
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Today's Children--Letting Indigos Experience Life
One of the most difficult things I had to do was to let
my children experience life in their own way and not
step in and rescue them every time they had a
problem. When they were young children I was always
there to support and help them but when they became
young adults and didn't seem to be willing or able to
take responsibility for their own life, I often found
myself helping them with various life issues that they
should have been able to handle on their own.
Learning how to let them experience life their own way
was a difficult but necessary step for me to take.
My Indigo children had some difficult childhood
experiences that have, in some way, made their entry
into adulthood take much longer than what I
remember in my own life. Helping them through this
process seemed like the natural thing to do until I
realized that I could be more effective and helpful by
giving advice and helping them through certain life
changes than by actually doing things for them. So
instead of being the parent that they could turn to for
whatever they needed, I became the parent they could
turn to for helpful advice, but with firm boundaries. And
they quickly learned that they needed to live with the
consequences of their decisions because I would no
longer fix things for them.
I am sure the process was difficult for them, but it was
even more difficult for me. I did not want to see my
children in pain, confused or even experiencing what I
went through at their age but they needed to do it so
they could learn how to make their own choices. So
even when they were struggling, I managed to keep
my distance while offering help in a way that did not
interfere with what they were going through and yet
was there for them if things got really bad. But I made
it clear that I was not going to be available to solve
every problem for them, especially those they created
for themselves.
Eventually things worked out well for them and they
were able to manage their lives in a productive way
that requires my assistance on a very limited level.
And since they made the choices and experienced the
results themselves, they now know what the results of
their behavior are. For example, when my older son
was arrested for drunk driving he suddenly realized
what I had been telling him for several years about
irresponsible behavior. And, aside from attending the
initial attorney meeting with him, I did not offer
additional help. He did not go to jail but he did have to
pay a large fine and face other consequences, which
he did on his own. Now he is more responsible. I hear
from many parents of Indigos who write that their
children are involved in very difficult experiences and
they don't know what to do. There is very little we can
do for them except remember they have their own
angels and guides to protect them and will get
through this according to the lessons their soul has
chosen for them.
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Spiritual Mentoring
I am now offering a spiritual mentoring program,
where
we will focus on your spiritual growth, current issues
or
problems and work through a solution. This program
is
available in blocks of four weekly sessions where we
work together to help you move past whatever is
blocking your spiritual path. Information is on the
website on the Spiritual Mentoring page. This program
is different from miracle coaching in that you choose
what you want to focus on during our time together.
Sessions are one-on-one and by telephone so
availability is limited.
Do you really need a miracle right now? Do you wish
you could focus on getting whatever you
needed in your life, at this moment ,and have it
appear? The Miracle Coaching program can teach
you
how to do that. Miracle coaching teaches you how to
use your creative power and become a miracle
creator,
putting you in control of creating miracles in your life,
instead of just wishing that they would happen.
The 8 week Miracle Program will teach you how to
get 'unstuck' and get the creative energy moving in
your life, so that miracles are an everyday occurrence
in your life. For 8 weeks, I will be your personal coach,
guiding you through this process. Each week you will
have a lesson to complete and a 30 to 45 minute
personal coaching session with me. I am also
available
by email on an unlimited basis to provide you with
support and feedback on your progress. You will
receive
a certificate of completion at the end of the course,
acknowledging your success as a miracle creator.
You
will also receive a FREE e-book '30 days to Everyday
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Information is available on the Uriel Heals website,
Miracle Coaching page.
About Uriel
Archangel Uriel is one of the seven Archangels that
stand at the throne of the God Creator and one of the
four major Archangels that serve humanity. Uriel rules
the mental plane, our thoughts and ideas, creativity,
insights, judgment, magic, alchemy, astrology,
universal
consciousness, divine order, the distribution of power,
the cosmic universal flow and the Earth's
environment.
Uriel is humanity's link to the spiritual realms and he
can
show us how to find our inner power through a
process
that will help each individual Shift in consciousness
and
therefore accelerate the entire human kingdom's shift
into higher realms of consciousness
About the Channel and Author
I am a spiritual intuitive, author, speaker, teacher and
channel for the Archangel Uriel. My path has often
been challenging, which has provided me with the
insight and compassion that is required at this time
when humanity is shifting in consciousness. I am
honored to be a channel for the Archangel Uriel and to
help others through this process. For information on
how to schedule a seminar or workshop in your area,
email me for information at healing@urielheals.com.
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