. March 31, 2008 The Process of Healing and Transformation
. Uriel Heals Newsletter
This week's messages
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Fear of Love

We look for love in so many places and we often get disappointed. Because what we are looking for is not really what we want. Instead of love, we want to be appreciated, we want someone to tell or show us that we are wonderful, deserving of their attention, gifted, talented, have something to offer that someone else wants and is willing to give us their love in return for our efforts. So we look for these things in every situation, taking on demanding jobs, relationships and life situations knowing that if we struggle hard enough we will eventually find the love we seek. But we're also afraid, not of love itself but that we won't get it. Our fear of love can be as great as our desire for it.

How many times have we tried to make things work, believing that if we tried harder, gave it one more chance, changed ourselves, that we would get the satisfaction we seek. And sometimes it works out the way we want. But the price we pay can be very high. Sometimes it doesn't work and we are disappointed, disillusioned, believing that we are deficient in some area, not able to gain the recognition we seek, not finding the value that we hope will be given to us in response to our efforts. Our fear of love has just been proven to be true and we believe that we don't deserve it or won't receive it, no matter how hard we try.

Our fear of love manifests in many ways. We choose partners who are not able to meet our need for love, we don't pursue our dreams, we don't accept a challenging job out of fear that we will fail, we don't follow opportunities because we are afraid of disappointment, that we will be inadequate or that we simply can't move away from wherever we are. Or we can fear that others won't accept us, understand us or acknowledge our efforts. The fear of love often manifests as self-sabotage, when we stop ourselves from succeeding out of fear that we will fail.

The fear of love can be healed by understanding our real reason for wanting to be loved and moving out of the focus on 'needing' love, in all of its forms, to 'being' love for ourselves. The world is an illusion, a hologram of our beliefs, perceptions, thoughts, words and yes, especially our fears. When we acknowledge the presence of unconditional love in every aspect of our being, we face the world with an outpouring of love and the world reflects that back to us. What is your fear of love? Where are you afraid that you will not receive the love you need in the form of value, acceptance, and respect? Release your need for love and be the love that you seek for yourself and watch it unfold in every aspect of your reality.

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Blessings to you all!

The April article is posted on the Uriel Heals website and this month's message is about Looking for Love. Our life on Earth is spent in search of love, not only romance, but the appreciation, acceptance and value that we want from others. Is our fear of love, of not getting what we want, greater than our desire for it? Read this week's article to find out. Archangel Uriel's messages reminds us to Surrender Everything. Hear this message by clicking the link on the home page. Can we acknowledge that our children have a problem before it becomes too obvious for us to ignore? Read about it in Today's Children article. The series on Indigos and Suicide is available on the Today's Children page in response to your requests. Read the newsletter in Spanish at Templo del Sol, thank you Xitlalli! The link is on the Uriel Heals home page.

Be sure to visit the Lightworker Resources page on the website to see helpful tools for your spiritual, emotional and physical well-being. An audio file of this week's Uriel message is available on the home page. I would like to welcome all of our new subscribers and thank you for joining the Uriel Heals Newsletter. Recent newsletters and articles are available on the 'Archives' page. The subscriber list grows daily and your emails and testimonials are appreciated. To ensure that you receive the newsletters please add its email address, healing@urielheals.com to your address book.

Not That Sign, Please
In many readings clients tell me that they want signs from the Universe and when I point out that the signs are there but they are ignoring them because they are not the signs they want to see, they have to acknowledge that while they want confirmation of how to proceed, they want conditional signs. These conditional signs include areas that they don't want to make choices about, or things they don't want to acknowledge. The Universe is giving them signs; they are just not paying attention. We ask the Universe for signs and then create restrictions around the areas we don't want to acknowledge or change.

Sometimes we like to live in the illusion that if we wait long enough things will turn out the way we want them to. And while have to focus on what we want, when our expectations enter the picture we sometimes go in the wrong direction. We know this when life gets hard, things take too much effort or nothing is working. Then we ask for signs but if our hopes are pinned on a certain outcome we want the signs to show us that things will turn out the way we hope they will. We're asking for help but with certain conditions. We ask for signs but as the Universe to exclude the ones we don't want to see.

So we ignore the signs that come our way or think that they are wrong or misinterpret them, all the time hoping that we will get the sign that shows us we are going in the right direction. But when we are focused on our spiritual journey we get the Truth, without any conditions. And our willingness to be on a healing journey requires that accept the Truth that goes beyond the truth that we want to hear. It is the Truth that we must know, acknowledge and accept. The signs are given to us but we have to get our expectations out of the way.

Our challenge is to trust that whatever is not in our Highest Good will be replaced with something that is, as soon as we let go of our expectations and accept the Truth that we are being shown. No matter how much we may want something, if it is not right for us at that time, it simply won't work. Life is supposed to be an effortless flow of joy and if it isn't, we will be shown where we are interfering with the process. When we stop looking for an answer that we are not receiving we will see the signs that point us in the direction of the wonderful miracles the Universe is trying to help us create and accept the signs we are given, without conditions.

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Uriel's Message--Surrender Everything


Surrender everything to the Universe and be in the flow of the Divine unconditional love, a love that knows no fear or doubt, that only knows the perfection of all. Surrender every hope, dream, wish and desire. Surrender your past, your fears, your disillusionment, hopelessness and feelings of powerlessness. Give these things as a gift to the Universe and step into the healing energy of unconditional love. Be as a child in your knowledge of your perfection and how deserving you are of the miracles of abundance in every good thing.

Be in a state of surrender every day, knowing that the only moment that exists in the mind of the Divine is the present moment. Within that moment only perfection exists for the past is finished and the future has not yet been created. In the present moment you stand on the threshold of the future, each thought you have creates the next step on your journey. When you surrender you release everything that you believe and allow the Universe to guide you on each step of your journey. The Universe will never allow you to stumble and fall, it is there to support you and be your unfailing guide.

Are your first thoughts of the day ones of regret, fear or anger? Do you greet the new day with the burdens of the past? Be in a state of surrender for you are always as a new person in the mind of the Universe. The Creator holds out the gifts of joy, peace, unconditional love and abundance beyond your greatest dreams for you. First you must be willing to surrender every emotion, thought, belief and memory of any mistakes you have made on your journey. For they do not exist. Nothing in the past exists in the present moment.

You are moving into higher dimensions of being and bringing heaven on earth. In heaven there is no past, there is no fear or regret, nothing has happened-it is all in a state of happening. Take time each day to surrender your fears and hopes, your regrets and dreams, your expectations and trust to the Universe. When you are in a state of surrender you are open to all blessings, willing to accept all miracles and know that you deserve all that is given to you. Surrender all to unconditional love and you will be rewarded with peace, joy and a life of endless miracles.

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Today's Children--My Child Has a Problem


Thank you all for the emails you sent about last week's article. The Indigos who suffered drug overdoses will recover, the family that experienced the murder will take some time to heal. These situations could have been avoided if the parents had been willing to acknowledge that their children had problems and to proactively address them. But there is a stigma attached to drug addiction and children from 'nice' families don't have these types of problems. So the parents ignored every sign, refusing to acknowledge that their children had a problem.

Indigos can be challenging, even after they become adults. They don't suddenly grow up and change at age 18 and transform into mature, responsible, communicative people. Many of them will take several more years to work through their issues and when addictions are involved the process becomes even more complicated. Indigos are especially prone to addiction and once that happens it is very hard for them to release those habits. They need our love and support at a time when it is most difficult to be there for them.

Acknowledging that an Indigo has a problem, that they are out of control and spiraling into addiction or even depression is difficult for parents. It means that they have to get involved, they have to become proactive and deal with the issue. Many parents are too overloaded with their jobs or daily lives to have extra time to pay attention. When a child is at an age where they should be able to manage their own life, it is even more difficult to accept that we need to step back into full-time parenting just when we thought that struggle was over. And acknowledging that a child has a problem is too difficult for some parents to face.

But Indigos do have problems, sometimes serious ones, and when they are ignored the results can be disastrous. We don't have to broadcast our personal problems to the world but we do have to acknowledge that our children have problems when they present themselves and seek the help that we need to get them and us through it. Acknowledging that there is a problem is the first step towards seeking help. Hiding the truth only creates more problems. This is a difficult time for Indigos and when they need help they won't usually ask for it. We need to be aware of their problems and take charge before the problems become so obvious that we won't have any other choice but face them.

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Spiritual Mentoring and Miracle Coaching


Spiritual mentoring focuses on your spiritual growth, current issues or problems and work together towards a breakthrough. This program is available in blocks of four weekly sessions where we work together to help you move past whatever is blocking your spiritual path. Information is on the website on the Spiritual Mentoring page. This program is different from miracle coaching in that you choose what you want to focus on during our time together. Sessions are one-on-one and by telephone so availability is limited.

Do you really need a miracle right now? Do you wish you could focus on getting whatever you needed in your life, at this moment ,and have it appear? The Miracle Coaching program can teach you how to do that. Miracle coaching teaches you how to use your creative power and become a miracle creator, putting you in control of creating miracles in your life, instead of just wishing that they would happen. The 8 week Miracle Program will teach you how to get 'unstuck' and get the creative energy moving in your life, so that miracles are an everyday occurrence in your life. For 8 weeks, I will be your personal coach, guiding you through this process. Each week you will have a lesson to complete and a 30 to 45 minute personal coaching session with me. I am also available by email on an unlimited basis to provide you with support and feedback on your progress. You will receive a certificate of completion at the end of the course, acknowledging your success as a miracle creator. You will also receive a FREE e-book '30 days to Everyday Miracles', filled with information on how to create miracles. Coaching availability is limited, so sign up now. Information is available on the Uriel Heals website, Miracle Coaching page.

About Uriel Archangel Uriel is one of the seven Archangels that stand at the throne of the God Creator and one of the four major Archangels that serve humanity. Uriel rules the mental plane, our thoughts and ideas, creativity, insights, judgment, magic, alchemy, astrology, universal consciousness, divine order, the distribution of power, the cosmic universal flow and the Earth's environment. Uriel is humanity's link to the spiritual realms and he can show us how to find our inner power through a process that will help each individual Shift in consciousness and therefore accelerate the entire human kingdom's shift into higher realms of consciousness

About the Channel and Author I am a spiritual intuitive, author, speaker, teacher and channel for the Archangel Uriel. My path has often been challenging, which has provided me with the insight and compassion that is required at this time when humanity is shifting in consciousness. I am honored to be a channel for the Archangel Uriel and to help others through this process. For information on how to schedule a seminar or workshop in your area, email me for information at healing@urielheals.com.

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