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August
2010
August 23, 2010 Articles include: The Rebirthing Student,
Give me the Bad News! Archangel Uriel's Message is Why You
Cannot Help Others, and Let's Flip This Energy
August 16, 2010 Articles include: The Re-Birthing
Teachers, What's Your Payoff?, Archangel Uriel's Message is
Self Healing and The Gift of Amazing Children
August 9,
2010 Articles include: The Childhood of Life,
Look and See, Release and Repeat, Archangel Uriel's
Message is Re-Assessing Responsibility and Teaching Indigos
about Money
August 2, 2010
Articles include:
Rebirth or Rebound?, The Energies of August, Uriel's Message
is Are you Focused on Healing? and Are You an Only
Child?
Read the August 2010 article The Rebirthing Cycle
July 2010
July
26, 2010 Articles include: Echoes and
Stillness, Larger than Life, Uriel's Message is Compassion and
Pity and Shifting the Crystal Paradigm
July 19, 2010
Articles include: Echoes and Illusions, Signs of Success,
Archangel Uriel's message is You Are the Meaning and The
Parent Fallout.
July 12, 2010
Articles include: The
Source of Echoes, Putting the Puzzle Together, Archangel
Uriel's message is You Are the Anchor of the World and Mothers
and Mothering
July 5, 2010
Articles include:
The Karmic Echo, Energies of July, Archangel Uriel's message
is Your Role in the Earth's Ascension and Shifting the Indigo
Paradigm
June
2010
June 28,
2010 Articles
include: Being versus Having Potential, After the
Eclipse, Now What?, Archangel Uriel's message is the In and
Out Breaths of God, and What About the Others?
June 21,
2010 Articles
include: Aligning
with the Highest Potential,
Father's Day, Solstice and Eclipse, Whew!, Archangel Uriel's
message is 'Your Greatest Gift', and Consciuos and Unconscious
Crystals
June 14,
2010 Articles
include: Forbidden Potential, An Electromagnetic Story,
Archangel Uriel's message is 'What is Consciousness' and
Conscious and Unconscious Indigos
June 7,
2010 Articles
include: Unused Potential, Floating or Swimming Against
the Tide?, Archangel Uriel's message is "Illusion or
Delusion?", and The Caretakers
The June article is Living Through
Potential
May 2010
May 31,
2010 Articles include: Putting the
Pieces Together, The Energies of June, Archangel Uriel's
message is "Have you Done Enough?" and Teaching
Grounding
May 24,
2010 Articles include: Purpose and
Meaning, Running out of Road, Archangel Uriel's message is
"Embrace Transformation and Become" and Teaching About
Options
May 17, 2010
Articles include: Purpose and Duality, Signs from the
Heavens, Archangel Uriel's message is "Ask What, Not Why", and
The Baby Spoon
May 10,
2010 Articles include: What Serves your
Purpose?, Mother's Day, Archangel Uriel's message is Live
Through Your Heart and Taking on the
Challenge
May 3,
2010 Articles include: Be and Live,
The Energies of May, Archangel Uriel's message is Forgive
First, Speak Second and First Time Children
Read May's article The Purposeful Life
Uriel Heals
"Enlightening Your Life" newsletter
August 30,
2010
The
Guilt/Shame Cycle
Emotions like
guilt and shame do not exist in a vacuum. They are part of a
long process of actions involving people and situations that
have created these emotions. All we remember is the end of
this process, how terrible we feel and these have been
repeated often enough to prevent us from moving forward as
soon as we sense a hint of them. But if we stop the cycle when
it starts, release the fear that we have around feeling guilt
or being shamed, they move into the background of our
responses and go back into the past, where they began.
Guilt is one
way that we are manipulated by others. Parents often use guilt
to control their children, believing that by showing them the
consequences their behavior has on others that they will learn
to be considerate and compassionate. It’s a backwards way of
saying that we should be aware of our connections. But then we
avoid acting by trying to minimize the guilt we will feel when
we put our needs and desires over those of others and we lose
our perspective about what is important to us.
Shame is such a
destructive form of manipulation because it takes guilt one
step further. If we disregard the guilt ploy then we get moved
into shame. Now we are a bad person, inconsiderate, selfish,
or self serving by ignoring others’ needs. Our desires become
a source of shaming by those who feel their needs are more
important. Within the guilt/shame cycle, if we can overcome
guilt and proudly declare our intention to serve our needs, we
are attacked at our core and our being. Shame moves blame from
what we are doing to who we are. Few of us can withstand this
type of attack, so we absorb the shame and it becomes part of
our belief system.
When we have
learned these principles well, we use the guilt/shame cycle on
ourselves. After a few passes with it, we do not need someone
to guilt and shame us, we know what to do. So when we put our
desires forward, we look at what others want or expect of us
and decide whether the guilt is worth the effort. If we decide
it is, then risk shame if we make a choice whose outcome
ripples energetically around us, as it will. Now comes the
hard part, can we step out of this cycle, see the interplay of
these energies and use our heart to ask “what do I want’
instead assessing each choice through what it will cost us in
terms of our guilt and shame?
The
Energies of September
This year has
been relentless as far as clearing energies, making peace with
our current and karmic past (which are intertwined), releasing
things that do not serve us and basically doing an energetic
house cleaning that is long overdue. We have made a collective
commitment to ascend, the desire and will are there but the
process has been much harder than we thought. Getting into the
dark corners of our physic and emotional closets has revealed
layers of pain and cleaning them out has taken all of our
resources.
It’s not
surprising that TV shows like “Hoarding: Buried Alive” are
popular. We have been buried for lifetimes by our baggage and
were not aware of it until we started shining our light
within. Light does one thing, it illuminates the darkness—all
of it. Light is not judgmental, it will shine on the dust
bunnies under the bed just as brightly as it does in the
window to show us that a new day has begun. Now that we know
where the dust bunnies are, we have to clean them. Mercury is
still retrograde the first half of this month, so we have lots
of support for our process. This is a time to take charge and
do it or it will be done for us.
September is
another month for release but now we have to start the work of
renewal. Now that we know what is holding us back, we have to
replace it with something else. As in August, we have to be
clear on what we want and start manifesting. As I was thinking
about what to write for this article, the words “manifest,
manifest, manifest” kept coming up. So September is a month
for manifesting in conjunction with clearing. And I believe
that the manifesting will flow more smoothly, as long as we go
in the direction we are guided.
I have a lovely
conversation with a friend over the weekend who was
struggling. She was manifesting but things were not flowing
and her life was a series of efforts that led nowhere. There
was an aspect to her work she had been avoiding and she was
not willing to go in that direction. But that is where she was
supposed to go, and she knew it. This is our path as September
begins. What are we being guided to do that we are avoiding
and how can we go there,
as we are shown and release the fear that holds us
back? The Universe is relentless and it will push us in our
chosen direction until we decide to stop fighting and
surrender. Be brave, courageous, bold and take action. Clean
the dust bunnies out with gusto and manifest the most
wonderful, amazing miracles as you replace fear with trust and
lack with effortless manifestation. Have a wonderful month.
Uriel’s
Message – Receive the Gift of Love
All that comes
to you in life is a gift, every person on your path is a giver
and love is the in the receiving, the gift and the giver.
Receiving helps you close cycles, balance energies, release
contracts, love and value yourself, and prepare for new cycles
of being. You cannot be an effective giver if you are not also
willing to receive for gifts are without value if they cannot
be received. There is fear of obligation, unworthiness, owing
others and rekindling karma with receiving but in truth, these
things are what could happen if you do not receive.
The gift of
love comes to you in many ways, not all of which you would
view as love. Often it is disguised in the form of karma,
challenge and loss. Other times it appears as lessons in power
and commitment, which cause you pain and sorrow. You think of
the gift of love as being wonderful, kind, gentle and
thoughtful but it is the full measure of the resolution,
clearing, forward movement and ascension potential you have
asked for.
The gift is the
release from the most dense of third dimensional energies.
When you judge the gift because it brings you pain stead of
joy, the giver because you feel they are your enemy or the
love because it does not make you feel good, you have missed
an opportunity for healing. Each gift you accept becomes a
light shining in your life to help you achieve your overall
goal of release that which limits your soul’s healing journey.
And within each act of receiving is
the closure you need to release fear and other energies that
you see as blocks on your healing path. They are not blocks,
they are simply energies you agreed to transmute into their
higher aspects and release them from the earth's grid.
Each teacher is
someone who loves you, not from your romantic view, but from
the position that they have agreed to be the mirror of some
aspect of your energy. Those who live through their darkness
help you find your light. Those whose actions are abuse,
mistrust and powerlessness are giving the gift of peace,
freedom, power and joy. Find the
gift of love in each thing so you can bless, appreciate and
release the giver, know that each gift and
giver is love and then receive the gift with
gratitude and give yourself the gift of healing and
closure. .
Sexy
for Kids?
It’s back to
school time here in the U.S. and the stores
are full of clothes and supplies for children who are starting
a new school year. I went to some shops to see what new styles
were in fashion and was appalled as I walked through the
girls’ sections. The clothes were not something I would have
allowed my daughter to wear and I wonder what mothers who
would not dress their children in these sexy clothes do. But
there is something more serious than sexy clothes for kids, it
is what this attitude is doing to them energetically.
The new
generations of children are energetically balanced and heart
centered. It has taken many lifetimes of work to bring us to
the point where we could shift our energetic center from the
lower chakras, where we have been limited to expressing our
karma, to the heart where we can be connected to Source. I
write about this shifting emotional center in Ascending into
Miracles (which is still in its final stages) and it is a
critical part of our ascension work. To be grounded in our
divinity, experience our highest energies, and work as
co-creators we must be grounded in our heart chakra.
Most of us have
had to do a lot of healing work to move our energy to the
heart and these children are born that way. And now they are
being shown that in order to be beautiful, power, popular and
stylish, they should wear clothes that attract others through
the second chakra energies, being attractive in a way that
amplifies and connects with this center. For a generation that
embodies heart centered energies, this is a temptation to take
a giant leap backwards in our spiritual evolution.
Many children
will not wear these kinds of clothes and some parents do find
them inappropriate. To keep them in balance, we can remind our
children that beauty comes from within and hem them stay heart
centered. Communication, sharing and loving attention are what
they thrive on and this will help them be balanced and
grounded in their own energies. And ‘sexy for kids’ will go
the way that many fads did and our children will gift us and
the world with the knowledge of how to be centered in the
heart and live in the flow of unconditional love.
About the
Author
Jennifer Hoffman is an
intuitive, spiritual healer, mentor, teacher and author
and channels the
energy of the Archangel Uriel. Jennifer’s intuitive abilities
go beyond psychic and into the realm of soul level
communication, accessing a client’s soul’s desire for peace,
joy and unconditional love. She is able to view the soul’s
lifetime purpose, identify the soul contract, describe blocks,
karmic imprints, negative patterning, messages and images and
facilitate the ascension into the miracle vibration, where
life becomes an effortless flow of joy and fulfillment. Her
ability to view the dynamics of the soul’s journey allows her
clients insights into how to achieve their highest possible
vibration, miracle mastery. Everything that stands in the way
of this goal can be transformed with willingness to change
one’s life story from victim consciousness to spiritual
mastery.
In her readings, Jennifer
works with the Archangel Uriel, angels, guides and departed
loved ones to help her clients gain clarity about their life purpose.
Jennifer has helped many people through the Shift through her
unique insights and counsel, facilitating their healing
journey. Jennifer is the founder of www.urielheals.com, an
on-line spiritual healing and growth center and dedicated to
the messages and teachings of Archangel Uriel. Information about
Jennifer's books, on-line seminars and services is available
at her websites, or email healing@urielheals.com for
information.
Article Copyright © 2010
by Jennifer Hoffman and Enlightening Life OmniMedia, Inc.. All
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